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no human is born with love kindness and compassion so how do we clothe ourselves in these without putting on a false front and is putting on a false front ok or will it contradict ourselves in some ways how do you put all your focus up there without even a few strands of unpure thoughts is it possible is there anyone that can reach perfection we love because its our 'duty' sounds wrong

oh man. in a state of confusion. ٩๏̯͡๏)۶